Dating Advice

The Dating World In Retirement


When we think of dating, we tend to imagine young people going out and finding love, while older people have already been long married and are no longer interested in the dating game. But this is a common misconception that needs to come to an end, because everyone, no matter how old they are, deserves to find a person that loves them for who they are.

What isn’t a misconception, however, is how much more difficult it can be to break into the dating world as a senior citizen, especially one that has been married for many years. Fortunately, with these simple tips and tricks, you will find yourself a loving partner in no time at all.

Avoid Online Dating At First

For many, the first instinct would be turn to online dating right off the bat, as it’s a much easier, more convenient way to start finding other people to start asking out. But many relationship experts actually advise against this, at least at first. One of the reasons for this is the lack of self-confidence that many people feel when they’re entering the dating world. Going out and meeting people in person tends to be a better idea as it gives you the confidence to look people in the eye and be yourself, and it’s a confidence that generally holds strong going forward. Once the confidence has been instilled, turning to the online world will be much easier.

Trust First Impressions

People forget how potent a first impression can be, especially if they have been with a person for a long time. This also creates a false sense of security if not kept in check; we tend to not listen to our instincts, which is doubly as true when we’re feeling vulnerable or lonely. But it’s vitally important to always trust how you feel about a person when meeting them for the first time. If you’ve put off after the first date, it’s not a good idea to pursue it. Rather call it off and move on to someone that you’re more comfortable with.

Expect To Feel Like A Teenager

Those butterflies we get as teenagers don’t go away as we get older, they just get packed away for the future, ready to come out again in the right situation. It’s an experience that many older people don’t expect when they start to date again – the feeling of being a lovestruck teenager falling in love all over again. It can also be a feeling overwhelms the senses at first and may leave you with just a bit of anxiety, at least at first, so it’s worth keeping in mind that you might just feel like a 15 year all over again, where you can both go out and spend time and enjoy these games together.

Always Strive For Honesty

Regardless of your past and how your previous relationships worked, there’s nothing more important than always being as honest as possible. Hiding the truth means having to try and constantly keep up with what you’ve told your new partner, and it can become exhausting in no time flat. Rather be honest in everything you say – it will ensure that you find someone that enjoys your company simply because of who you are.